In fact, today was one of those days that I think a lot of people yearn to have but dont get in the majority of places across America. I truly appreciate and love where I live... and I had a wonderful conversation to this effect with a new couple to my circle of friends this evening. They are delightful, creative, passionate... attractive, and are worthy of a blog post because I know that they will be friends for as long as they are our Yountville neighbors (and perhaps even longer).
We met Sean and Melissa McArdle at the Yountville pool earlier this last summer where we were both enjoying some time with our daughters Isabella and Gaia. The girls, both very close in age, made that immidiate unabashed connection that adults are most often too cautious to make. As the children play, the parents make the smallest of small talk initially, until finally steering the brief conversation to a topic other than children. Play dates are arranged where the mothers are given time to connect, and finally the suggestion of a dinner is proposed.
So it is written, and so it was done.
At our 'first supper' we learned a lot about our new frineds.
Sean and I have a lot in common. On the back of every bottle of Modus Operandi wine, there is a quote that I wrote a long time ago that defines the mantra of my journey...
"For some, determining one's true purpose in life is accomplished thru following the path of least resistance, and thus relinquishing to passion."For me, it was selling all of my possessions in Dallas to become a Winemaker in Napa. For Sean, it was leaving a life as a successful architect to immerse himself in his passion of and for creating art. And boy is he talented. I was so impressed by his work. It is truly world class. Have a look at his blog and gallery: http://www.seanpatrickmcardle.com/
Melissa is a classic Georgia peach... sweet as can be. And for us, the connection was social media and writing but she also owns and operates a very well done online artisan boutique http://www.reverie-daydream.com
My favorite thing about the evening was the conversation....
- Both of our families are debating on where to send our daughters to school. Whether it be Waldorf, traditional, private, or religious... its a big decision for a family with an only child. Decision to be determined...
- Intricacies of social media... HOW it is completely valid for modern day marketing when done well. HOW so many people rejected it in the beginning but now are willfully and sometimes unknowingly embracing it (this is a whole other blog post folks).
- Travel... We have all spent time traveling in Europe. Sean and Melissa have lived in Paris. Will (the chef of the evening) and his wife are from Europe now living in Sausolito. Travel is so close to my heart. I am from a small family in Texas that never traveled and feel that I missed out on... THE WORLD... I really want to make sure that my daughter experiences as much (ha ha) if not more (duh) than me. Actually, at the tender age of 4, she has been to more countries, and has eaten at more fine restaurants than I had at the age of 30. I am very proud to say that. I am doing my job for her. After all, I'm grooming the future winemaker for Modus Operandi Cellars. Anything less, would be uncivilized.
Anyway, Sean and Melissa were wonderful hosts. Melissa made my wife gluten free foods, since she lives sans gluten. Thanks to them for that.
I had an idea that if I ever do an "artist series" label, I'd probably ask Sean to do it for me. But lets slow down a little... we should probably hang out a second, third, and fourth time before I start getting too excited about those kinds of things. I understand we have a dinner set for Bardessono (my fav) next Sunday. I very much look forward to that.
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